Inspire Marilyn Monroe (:

I believe that everything happens for a reason . No matter how bad the situation is , there's definitely a reason for it . Even though life can be a bitch sometimes and has its ups and downs like a roller coaster or other times it feels like a merry-go-round , going around and around but seemingly getting no where , just remember that this is just how it is . This is life and you just have to deal with it .

Some people think that they're going through a really rough time and they're the only one who's going through it when the truth is , you ain't the only one . Open your big wide eyes and look around , everyone on this planet is going through 'something' . Everyone has their own problems , and some of them might actually have the same problem that you're going through right now . It's just that the only difference is how you handle it . Some people try to handle things by searching for a solution , some people have faith and hope for better things to come , some people just keeps complaining but never do anything about it , some people is just too ego to make things work , and others just simply gives up and never bother to fix it . I'm not saying that I'm an expert on handling my problems , oh never . To be honest , I screw things up quite a lot myself actually . But what I've learned is that you can tell a lot about a person by the way they handle things .

Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself . Make sure that you are a good person and a good friend . Appreciate everything around you because you never know what you have until you lose it , and once you lose i t, you can never get it back . If you have something to say , just say it . Be honest and straight forward . When people give you advices for your own good , take it in and do something about it . Treat people like the way you want people to treat you . What is meant to be will end up good and what is not won’t . Relationships are worth fighting for , but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting . At time , people need to fight for you . If they don’ t, you must move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you . Hopefully , people realize great things when they come around and don’t lose something real . Always fight , until you can’t anymore , and then be fought for .

Marilyn Monroe once said that people change so that you can learn to let go , things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right , you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself , and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together .

So the next time you're having doubts about your life , or complain about how shitty your life is . Just stop . There are people out there who is dealing with stuff that is much more worse and painful than what you are dealing with right now . They just don't show it to the whole world . Being too dramatic about something small can cause something huge , something worse . Seeking sympathy from everyone isn't going to solve anything . Running away , hiding or killing yourself isn't going to do you any good . You'll just end up more miserable .

Fight for what is worth it , handle things the mature way and have faith a little .

♥